The 5 Reasons Your Relationship NEEDS a Date Night at Least Once Per Week
You Both Need To Get Out Of The Normal Routine
People get burned out on their jobs because they deal with the same old stuff all the time and the job no longer supports their personal growth—they stagnate.
A relationship is the same way. If you stick to the same old, usual routine day in and day out you will start to feel the love between you dim.
Worse, you will begin to associate your loved one with the common and mundane. And then something terrible will happen–you’ll start to seek out other people to give you that buzz, that high, that excitement of something new.
Think about it, when you fell in love with them, everything about them was new.
When you went on dates you were exploring.
Now, just because you know every cute little freckle on their body doesn’t mean you can’t go exploring with them anymore.
If you and your significant other frequently explore new restaurants, new movies, new parks (or whatever you are both mutually interested in) then you will see your love grow stronger and your admiration for the other person grow with it.
Date Nights keep things fresh!
Your Partner Will Be Sexier
When you go out of course you’re going to dress a little nicer than usual.
It may not seem like much, but that simple step up—tucking in your shirt or putting on those sparkling earrings—can change the entire dynamic of attractiveness.
But there’s more to it than just getting dressed up. Part of attraction is about social status and going out to where other people are increases our attraction to our partner.
(But they’re a catch–it has to be a casual place, like a restaurant or laid back bar.)
Not only that, but the stimulus of a crowd—whether it’s a restaurant, a park, or even just a city street—will work to increase how attractive your partner appears to you.
You Need A Chance To Goof Off
Everything in life is so serious at times and sometimes that means that a simple conversation between you and your bae (#throwback) can become stressful dissagreements.
You need to go somewhere and do something that doesn’t matter for a change…
That way you can each express your own opinions and those opinions don’t have to agree—you can just go with the flow and have fun!
You Really Do Miss Those Romantic Days When You First Met—And So Do They
There is nothing quite like the awkward but exhilarating experience of a blossoming romantic relationship where you are still exploring the petals and the thorns.
Don’t worry—those days are not over. There is plenty more for you and your loved one to explore and learn about each other.
All you have to do is make the time for it to happen.
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Last But Not Least—You Want To Be The Highlight Of Your Partner’s Week & Vice-Versa
Life can be difficult at times and sometimes it can seem that there are pressures from all around us—even from our significant other.
If for no other reason, you need to commit to a weekly date night so that you can ensure that each of you are taking time to heal and nurture the other.
People fall in love—and stay in love—with the person that makes them feel supported, protected, happy, and important.
Choose one day out of the week and make sure you are spending that doing something enjoyable, fun, and a little bit new with your partner.